Lady
&
Alexander
Other boys were into stuff like baseball,
soccer, video games. Not my 10-year-old
By Cheryl Christensen
Atlanta, Georgia
You might call my
son, Alexander, a Mayberry throwback, as in the
old feel-good TV show The Andy Griffith Show.
Skinny, sandy-haired and freckle-faced, he even
has an old-fashioned look. You’re more likely to
find him hunting for tadpoles than playing the
latest video game, and he’d rather be walking
through the woods than the mall. He rescues
injured blue jays and robins and brings them to
wildlife rehabilitators. I’ve seen him pry a
chipmunk from the jaws of a neighborhood cat and
nurse the little creature back to health.
His compassion amazes me. Still, I couldn’t
help worrying about him. Alexander seemed so
different from the other boys in our suburban
Atlanta neighborhood, like he didn’t fit in
somehow. I bit my nails in the bleachers at
Little League games, watching him chase after
bugs instead of balls. I sat anxiously in the
church gym, hoping that for once someone would
pass him the basketball. I signed him up for
theater groups and music lessons, hoping to
connect him to his passion, whatever that might
be. I prayed, Dear God, please help Alexander
find his place in your world. Then I’d go
back to searching for just the right
extracurricular activity for my son, the one
he’d excel in.
Nothing clicked. Until Alexander met the
volunteers from Small Dog Rescue in the parking
lot of our pet-supply store. He peppered them
with questions about dog care and training, and
asked about the characteristics of different
breeds—the kind of interest I wished he’d shown
in his schoolwork.
Although at 10 he was two years shy of the
minimum age requirement to volunteer, he won
over the director. Alexander went through
orientation and training, and soon he was
spending four hours every Saturday in front of
the store, greeting shoppers and talking to them
about the dogs available for adoption. I’d drop
him off at noon and when I picked him up in the
late afternoon he would be full of stories about
this pup or that.
Sometimes he brought home dogs to foster
while they awaited “forever” homes. “They won’t
be any trouble, Mom. I promise,” he said. It was
true—I never had to remind him to feed, water or
walk them. Alexander researched dog care on the
internet and checked out every book on dog
breeds and behavior the library had. My son had
found his passion, all right. I thought my
prayers had been answered.
Then one afternoon as soon as I arrived to
pick him up, Alexander announced, “Mom, I want
to foster Lady. No one else wants her.”
One look at the dog by his side, and I knew
why. This wasn’t a teacup poodle or Pomeranian
or any of the dainty purebreds that were quickly
snatched up. This was a 60-pound mutt, with wiry
blond fur and gangly legs. She quivered not with
fear, like some abandoned dogs, but with a
barely contained energy. The next thing I knew
she leapt at me, her paws hitting me square on
the chest, knocking me off kilter as she planted
a big, slobbery kiss on my face.
“Alexander, I don’t think she’ll fit in at
our house,” I said. Much as his four
sisters—Alexander’s right in the middle—loved to
play with the dogs he brought home, I could
imagine they wouldn’t be so excited about this
big hyper mutt getting into their things.
“Lady has nowhere to go,” he said. “She’s
already been at two homes, and they can’t keep
her. Please, Mom, let me foster her. I’ll do all
the work.” He looked at me pleadingly.
I relented. “Okay, but remember, she’ll be
your responsibility.”
But by then he was already chasing Lady
around the parking lot.
Lady was fun, lovable even, but there were
plenty of problems. She bounded over our kitchen
table, dishes flying in her wake. She had an
inexplicable interest in our laundry, especially
the towels. She jumped onto the family room
couch and dashed away, a brand-new throw pillow
in her teeth.
“Lady, no!” I cried, every time she
misbehaved. She cocked her head quizzically, not
understanding why I was upset.
Alexander seemed almost as oblivious to
Lady’s mischief-making as she was. “Mom, isn’t
Lady smart?” he marveled. “She catches on really
fast when
I’m training her. And whenever there’s
something new in the house, she always sniffs it
out.”
One day she chomped right through our
telephone wires. Alexander sat us all down—my
husband, our girls and me—and explained, “Lady
only did that because she’s teething. She can’t
help it, but I’ll do my best to distract her
with toys.” Try telling that to the phone
company, I thought.
Every Saturday, Alexander brushed Lady and
brought her to adoption day, championing her
cause to anyone who walked by. Week after week
there were no takers. Yet my son never lost
hope. “God, please help Lady find the right
home,” I would hear him praying every night
before bed.
The months dragged on, and still Lady wasn’t
placed with a new owner. I couldn’t bring myself
to dash my son’s hopes, but I had to face facts:
This dog was unadoptable. If we were going to be
stuck with Lady, though, her behavior would have
to improve. I confided my dilemma to the
director of Small Dog Rescue, and asked if she
could recommend a doggy boot camp.
Right away she thought of Mac. He’d started
the K-9 unit at the police department in nearby
DeKalb County. Now retired, Mac volunteered as a
law enforcement consultant, scouting potential
police dogs, often at local shelters. I called
him and told him about Lady. He agreed to take a
look at her. Alexander was thrilled. “This is
it, Mom,” he said. “This is what Lady’s been
waiting for.” If only I could be so sure.
He put Lady into her crate and we drove to a
park where Mac would evaluate her. Alexander sat
in the back seat, beside Lady’s crate, unusually
quiet.
“You okay?” I asked.
“Just wondering what Mac’s looking for,” he
said. Then he brightened and turned to Lady.
“You’re gonna do great,” he said. “I just know
it.”
Mac shook hands with Alexander. “So, this is
Lady,” Mac said, scratching her between the
ears. His friendliness put us all at ease. He
showed Lady a rolled towel, taped on the outer
edges so it looked like a large terry cloth hot
dog. He held it above his head. Lady leapt high
into the air to snatch it. Then Mac took the
towel and hid it behind his back. Lady didn’t
hesitate. She circled him and seized it as
adroitly as she stole things from my laundry
basket.
“This dog has one strong prey drive,” Mac
said. For canine law enforcement work, he
explained, an instinct to seek prey with
single-minded focus is critical. Prey drive,
agility, strength, size and a keen sense of
smell enable police dogs to perform tasks that
no human or machine could match. “Only a few
dogs meet the criteria for police work,” Mac
said. “Lady’s a natural.”
Alexander practically glowed, he was so
proud of Lady. The look on his face said it all:
See, I knew she was special!
“If it’s okay with you, Alexander, I’ll take
Lady,” Mac said. “I’ll bring her to the police
academy and have her tested. My guess is she’ll
make a great explosives- or narcotics-sniffing
dog.”
Alexander bit his lip and nodded. “Can I say
good-bye to her?”
“Of course,” Mac said. “Why don’t you take
her over to my truck? She’ll be more comfortable
with you leading her.”
Lady walked calmly beside Alexander on her
leash. “Sit,” he said, when they got to the
truck. Lady sat. Alexander rewarded her with a
treat and patted her on the head. “Good girl.”
He gave her one last hug. Then it was time to
step aside and let Mac put her into the truck.
Alexander and I sat in our car, and watched
them drive away. Tears streamed down my son’s
cheeks. “I know I did the right thing, but I’ll
miss her, Mom,” he said. “I love her.”
“I know, Alexander.” I put my arms around
him and hugged him tightly. “And I love you.” As
I held my son, my own eyes moistened. I loved
his compassion and intelligence, his patience
and maturity.
Not that I wouldn’t ever worry about my son
again (that’s what moms do), but I knew I didn’t
need to. Alexander never stopped believing there
was a greater plan for that impossible-to-place
dog, long after everyone else had given up. A
boy with that kind of faith would discover his
own God-given gifts just fine. In fact, I think
he already has. |